Lola is back, bitches. Hang out with the ladies to talk about dom vs. sub roles, no whips needed. Thanks to pop culture, Steph and Vanessa envisioned dom/sub talk to be all about leather gear, tying each other up and kink but, thanks to Lola, she expands our minds beyond this discussion. Let’s talk about sex in more realistic ways, how our roles in the home also affect our roles in our sexual relationship. Knowing how we interact in our daily life can also spice things up in the bedroom.
They also get juicy with talking about how women can explore and get to know themselves more deeply. They get into specifics about sex toys that are more geared toward knowing ourselves. Vibrators can be nice but have you heard of slow pleasure tools? Lola explains ways we can better know our female bodies with the help of some beautiful tools.
Lastly, who has seen the Barbie movie? Lola’s take on the story opened up our minds about the patriarchy and matriarchy. This is a podcast for women and mothers AND we invite men to listen! We love our men, our fathers, our uncles, our grandfathers, our brothers, and our sons. We do believe that men and women are on this earth for a reason. Our goal in this podcast is to know ourselves as women more and, when we do this, we can improve our relationships with the many meaningful men in our lives.
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Lola recently wrote a lovely longform piece on monogamy
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BOOKS MENTIONED
The Chalice and the Blade: Our History, Our Future
Strangers to Soulmates: A poetic journey for lovers
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CREDITS:
This episode was edited by the geriatric millennial, your co-host, Vanessa Anderson
Music by our kids’ brilliant piano teacher, John-William Gambrell
Art by the creative genius Farron Sanders of FiGS ideation Design
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